From Homelessness to Healing: The Power of Relationships
HOMELESSNESS • TRAUMA • HUMAN CONNECTION
People Don’t Heal in Systems. They Heal in Relationships.
We talk a lot about fixing homelessness through housing, funding, policies, strategies and services, and of course all of those things matter, but after living through homelessness myself, I believe there is something we still underestimate.
The power of human connection.
When somebody has spent years experiencing trauma, rejection, abuse, instability, addiction or being passed from one service to another, another form to complete or another professional telling them what they should be doing is not always what reaches them.
Sometimes it is the person who remembers their name.
The worker who asks, “What happened to you?” instead of “What is wrong with you?”
The person who keeps showing up after they have been pushed away.
The professional who understands that anger might be fear, disengagement might be exhaustion, addiction might be an attempt to escape unbearable pain, and somebody missing an appointment does not mean they do not want their life to change.
I know this because I have been that person.
I spent years around homelessness, addiction and services, and some of the moments that stayed with me were not policies or programmes. They were moments when another human being made me feel like I was still worth something.
“You can give somebody accommodation without giving them safety. You can provide a service without building trust.”
Trauma Informed Practice Has to Be More Than Words
That is why I believe trauma informed practice has to be more than language in a policy document, because you can meet every target on a spreadsheet while the person sitting opposite you still feels invisible.
People need housing, but they also need dignity, consistency, trust, belonging and relationships that remind them they are more than the worst thing that has happened to them.
When we understand the trauma behind behaviour, we begin to respond differently. We stop seeing someone as difficult, non compliant or unwilling to engage and start asking what happened, what they have survived and what they might need in order to feel safe enough to trust again.
“People don’t heal in systems. They heal in relationships.”
This Is Why I Created Homelessness Inside Out
This thinking sits at the heart of Homelessness Inside Out, my interactive lived experience learning programme created to help frontline professionals, housing teams, charities, healthcare services and organisations understand homelessness beyond what we see on the surface.
Because if we genuinely want to change outcomes, we have to stop seeing a problem that needs managing and start seeing the human being standing in front of us.
Sometimes one relationship can be where somebody finally begins to believe that life can be different.
HOMELESSNESS INSIDE OUT
See the Person Before the Homelessness
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